Some of my friends have commented that they desire to be the only child in their family, where they'll received all the loves and attentions from their parents. Being the only child can avoid arguing with siblings, and avoid being the one sacrificing and giving in to younger siblings. It seems like this is a good choice, but only for a short period i guess.

Won't you feel bored at home? Won't you feel that something is missing in your life? Won't you feel that there no one to talk to beside your parents? I would say yes to the questions. I've been the only child for 18 years and sometimes I've been wondering why my parents don't want to give me a brother or sister? In addition, there are many people in this world who are so fortunate to have siblings but they are not willing to interact and get along together well?

I remembered that one of my friend came very early to school, around 6.15am. I asked her why and her reason is: "Yesterday, my younger brother bullied me. He even beat me. I can't stand it and lock myself in the bedroom and cry. And today I came school early to avoid him." However, my friend's parents knew the incident later and her brother apologised to my friend.

This triggered me a feeling at that time:heartbroken. She cried because her closest kin has done something hurting to her. Living together for so many years and this is what she get from her brother. Eventually, she forgives him-because he is her brother afterall.

It is impossible for me to have a sibling in my life now, but for those who have any, please cherish them. You may think that there are many other chances to talk to them, play with them etc. However, when you realise that you need them, you may not have the chance anymore.